What is the meaning of being in a RELATIONSHIP?

Hey my peoples, how’s it goes? I have been doing just great, as good as I suppose to be I guess ;(. Anyway, I sent an email to all my people talking about a blog post from a dude on XXlmag.com talking about that new song INDEPENDENT by a dude name Lil Bossie and the plight of the relationships between black men and women. This got me wondering about the true meaning of being in a relationship. See first off, men and women are different, not all that different from what society wants you to believe, but we are biologically, emotionally and physically different sure. However, I truly believe we all want the same things as people in general. We all want happiness, stability and a foundation to build upon, but we approach it in different ways. Women are emotional beings that wear their feeling like a chip on their shoulder. Men on the other hand are physical, we look past emotion and straight to the ass. What everyone seems to forget is that in this rat race to find the perfect husband or wife we all have ulterior motives that we feel is the means to the end. It very simple and basic, men want women who can nourish a household, meaning taking care of the house, the kids and him. Women want a men who can provide monetary substances to help them in building a home, allow them (the woman) to attached to them emotionally and make a house a home (the foundation). However, in this independent age of the women and how society is today, men are not alone in being the breadwinners for monetary needs women have to get out there and add to the pot. Women now have to be able to hold a household down by themselves because good black men are far and few. The women to men ratio is so high for men that it’s like a buffet of women to choose from (not calling you food). I’m getting into another subject, let me get back on track… What I’m trying to say is this, there’s an old saying “What you did to get me, is the same thing you have to do to keep me”. With all this independent stuff, all it’s doing is separating the households because we don’t want to remember our place in the relationship. Men can’t be women and women can’t be men, we both need each other for different reasons. All men want is to be treated like a KING and women want to be treated like a QUEEN, but how can we accomplish this if we are separated and don’t know how to treat each other. Women, it’s OK to bow down to your man, cater to him make him remember the reasons why he fell in love with you, Men it’s OK to place your woman up high and treat her with dignity and respect. This is a give-to-get situation we are in and if no one is giving, then no one is going to get it. Stop banging your head against a brick wall, someone has to give in, because in the end we all are going to loose out.